when hope not correspond to reality - Life is flowing like a river between two banks. The flow is so swift flowing through steep rocks and a raging waterfall. Then the creek gradually widened and extended, until edges farther away and quieter running water and eventually leading to a vast ocean.
That is our life's journey. The series of failures and successes, sorrow and happiness. Everything is always running hand in hand, and a series of events in every episode of life that continues to flow, until finally met with estuarine life (to Allah swt).
In the journey of life, man would never escape from victory and defeat. Happiness and sadness. Everything turns like a wheel of life that is always spinning, sometimes above and sometimes below. But if we go through this life with full sincerity, patience and gratitude, then we will never experience WHILE UNDER, because we will still feel happy and comfortable position wherever we are.
Live the life as water continues to flow through the craggy rocks and wading through a raging waterfall. Not always wonderful victory and defeat was not always too depressing. When we win, but the victory was actually leads to arrogance. Then indeed we are in DEFEAT THE INCREDIBLE. Vice versa, when we're losing, but we have a high motivation to get up, then at that time we also had a WINNER THE TRUTH.
Many things that look so beautiful and everything we have planned. But sometimes the plans did nothing materialized. "When HOPE is not in accordance with the TRUE". Because God knows, that it is not the best for us, then He changed the plans with a much more perfect plan. Allah also says: Perhaps you hate something when it is very good for you, and maybe you like something, but it is very bad for you; Allah knows, while you do not know. (Surah Al Baqarah 216).
We're also going to smile and realize, that in fact failures and mistakes we have done in the past to be a very valuable lesson pearls as stock as it navigates the future. The existence of failures and temptations that face is not to make us turn away from Him. But to get closer to Him. Because God desires the prayers of the faithful. Muhammad also said: When God loved servant so he tested that God heard his petition (his humility). (Narrated by al-Bayhaqi).
There is a sense of worry and anxious not to make us into people who cowardly and easy to give up, but to make us into the people who are always READY and CAUTION with the work we will do. Life is a beautiful gift. It was so much time wasted if we just complain, grief, and dissolves in chaos. "After a storm comes a calm". The storm must have passed, assured that after the ease or difficulty there must be a way out so close. Allah also says: "Verily, with every difficulty there is relief." (Surat an Nasyr: 6).
"Do not be weak, and do (did) you grieve, but ye are the people of the most high (degree), if ye are believers." (Q.S Ali Imran: 139). "And do not you despair of the mercy of God. Surely not despair of the mercy of God, but the people who disbelieve. "(Surah Yusuf: 87)
Therefore, whatever happens, we must be sure that it is just one side of life. With a balanced attitude to always improve itself and constantly TRYING and PRAY, then we would get the best. Everything was there time. There are times when we must strive to 'plant', and it will come also the time for us to 'pluck' hard work we have done.
Let us continue to clean up and clean up to present what is BEST in life. In honor of the heart and unyielding spirit, anywhere, anytime, and with anyone. As long as God remains "JUST THE ONE GOAL", then we will always be in peace and happiness. As frequent prayer we say, "Happy World Hereafter".
So, How about you ..? Do you still mourn every trial that God gives ..? And have you rise from adversity after you failed to do what is best in life.? "O ye who believe, ask for help (to Allah) with patience and a (working) prayer, Allah is with those who steadfastly persevere." (Q.S Al Baqarah: 153). "Allah is sufficient for me: there is no god but He. Only in Him I put my trust (Surah At Tawbah: 129).