Difference Mindset One - One time, a fairly harmonious family had a pretty tough exam. The father who is the sole breadwinner, ill. For this reason, the mother and two twins they are still a teenager, had to work hard. The mother made the cake, and their two children while going to school to sell.
Within six months, the condition of the father continued to deteriorate. Until one day, he called his wife and two beloved children. "My wife, my time seems to have soon. Thank you with me so far, and educating both our children well. Please take care of them, "the father said. "My son who is very dear to me. I also ordered two things to you. First, do not ever solicit you. Second, do not let yourselves be sunburn. "
The two boys looked at each other. They also asked, "What are you saying Dad?" But have not had time to answer, the father had breathed his last. They also mourn the departure of the person they loved so much, all the while thinking, what is the last message of the father.
Time changed, years passed. The two young men had twins split up to find their way of life. Until one day, their mothers intend to visit his two children who live far away.
The first time, the mother went to her second child. At that time, he had to know, why the kid both often complained in the letter is always sent. He lived poor, emaciated body. He also asked, "Son, why do you get to experience these conditions," he asked.
"Mom ... I just run message father." He answered. "That is, do not ever collect receivables and do not get sunburned. The first message I carried! Each one owes, but I never collect their own pay. And, it makes a lot of people who never even owed pay. Secondly, because there may be sunburn, while there is money, I use it all to buy his own car. Consequently, at this time I do not have enough money, "said the second boy miserably. Sorry mom, then ask the second child come back to live with him. However, before that, he wants to see his first child. Apparently, he's successful and happy life.
What makes the child's condition is very different from the first second child? The first child replied, "Mom, I just run a given message's father first. At that time, my father asked me not to be collecting receivables. So I do my best never to let people owe. For each item I sell, I was enjoined to pay at the beginning. Then to comply with a second message, I always go early in the morning and come home when it's late. I can maximize the time to be able to achieve such results until now. "
In this blogger friend this story, it is clear that mindset (positive or negative) will give a different effect.
The same thing could happen to us. The conditions and circumstances that befall (eg crisis) will give different results if we can change the angle of view becomes more positive. Because, with a positive mindset, we will have a broader way of thinking to improve the situation. When it fails, can be a moment to learn to fix what is wrong. When dropped, it could be time to evaluate themselves in order to be able to rise again.
Let us fix our view of everything that we've come across, with a mindset that is always positive. Thus, any result whatever we find, can be a thing that is always full of meaning.